What would you call someone who is only your “friend” when no one else is around? They never mention you to their other friends. They never invite you to go anyplace with them. They behave as if they are embarrassed to know you or to be associated with you.
They might meet you for lunch now and then if it’s convenient, and the rest of the week you never hear from them unless they need your help with something or they are in a desperate situation. It’s as if you are their secret “friend.”
How would that make you feel? Would you consider that person a true friend? Would you entertain the idea that this person may actually be an enemy?
Isn’t this how we treat God a lot of the time? When we are with our “non-christian” friends we are careful not to mention God. We leave God at home or at the church “where He belongs.”
Or we only talk to Him when we have an emergency or want something good to happen to us or someone in our family. We keep God a secret because we don’t want to be controversial or unpopular; we don’t want to be politically incorrect.
When we deliberately leave God out of our lives or don’t invite Him into all areas of our lives, that is what the Bible calls being of the world; worldly or a friend of the world. The world’s way of doing things, saying things and thinking things is to do so apart from God. God is not welcome. God is not invited.
We should always love people and be friendly towards them. God tells us to love all people. That is completely different than loving the world; the things of the world and the ways of the world.
God uses some pretty strong language about being friends with the world. He definitely doesn’t mince words.
1 John 2:15 Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love for the Father is not in them.
James 4:4 You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.
In the line of work I’m in as a book author, there is the constant temptation to leave God out. For example: If I leave God out of my books I could make more money; my books could be seen by more people and more people might buy them. I’m limiting myself if I label myself a Christian Author. I would be more successful and more popular if I were a secular author.
I once heard a statement in the movie “God’s Not Dead,” that has stuck with me and explains my view of choosing between God or the world; “I’d rather stand with God and be judged by the world than stand with the world and be judged by God!”
Even if I never make a living writing and selling books, I will never regret my decision to never leave God out!
John 15:18-19 “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated Me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.
1 John 2:16-17 For everything in the world-the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life-comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.
Every moment of every day we have a decision to make; will we invite God to go with us every place we go? Will we invite God into our workplace, our classrooms, our friendships? Will we invite Him into our intimate relationships? Into our entertainment, our wardrobe, our politics? Our conversations? Our finances?
Most importantly, will we invite Jesus into our hearts?
John 3:16-19 For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him. Whoever believes in Him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son. This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil.
Will you choose to invite God into every area of your life? Will you choose to live a life that says, “I am a friend of God!”
Matthew 10:32 “Whoever acknowledges me before others, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven. But whoever disowns me before others, I will disown before my Father in heaven.
Dear God, I know I am a sinner, and I ask for Your forgiveness. I believe Jesus Christ is Your Son. I believe that He died for my sin and that You raised Him to life. I want to trust Him as my Savior and follow Him as Lord, from this day forward. Guide my life and help me to do Your will. I pray this in the name of Jesus. Amen.